When is it ok to give up on could be relationship? Actually let me change that question to this: Is it every ok to give up on a could be relationship? I feel as though many people, if not everyone asked either of these questions would say “Yes,it is absolutely ok to give up on said relationship.” I’ll through a scenario at you: you like a guy (or girl) and for a while it seems like they like you back. Everything is going great, the two of you hangout all the time, talk to each other, do embarrassing things in front of one another, you even taker care of that person when they are intoxicated. It’s pretty well smoother sailing and the guy/girl you are kind of with but not officially with makes you feel like royalty. But then all of a sudden, literally over night it all stops. They don’t want to talk to you when other people are around, they don’t want to be seen with you, and it seems as though they are completely oblivious as to how your feel, either that or they don’t care. What do you do? Do you cut your losses and give up on that person? But keep in mind you have feelings for this person and you thought they were reciprocated. You’ve seen how sweet and caring that person could be to you, and they still can be as long as no one else is around. You feel as though a change like that over night had to have been caused by something. What if it was your fault? What if it was something you did? But wait the scenario goes on, the person is now going around with other people, sleeping around, smoking, drinking all the time ect. However they still talk to you in person when (not over the phone) no one else is there and for a few minutes it feels as though everything is normal again. You know this person isn’t being themselves, so do you wait for them to come back to you? Or is that just waiting for something that will never happen?
Xoxo,
I guess I’ll wait……. But I don’t know how munch longer
The Days We Live For and The Ones We Don't Want 